There’s Something Wrong.

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Eidan on top, Eva on the Bottom.

Between  April 1st, the time we posted on Facebook that we were expecting twins, and April 10th of 2014 when we were to go to New York to visit family,  we had another doctors appointment that changed our lives.  But this time it was the most devastating news any expecting parents could possibly hear, “there’s something wrong with one of them.”

As soon as we heard the news I cried.  I cried  harder than I ever cried before, I’m sure of it.  I was on a cloud with the last doctors visit, but this time I was at an all time low.  I was told that one child will not survive the pregnancy (this was the one and only time they mentioned abortion and I remember my husbands reaction to that was as if the doctor told him something offensive… It was never mentioned to us again).  Well, we got the same unfortunate news confirmed by another doctor as well as a specialist soon after.  In the ultrasound, it showed a very large cystic hygroma on the back of her neck, a cystic hygroma is basically a very large pocket of skin filled with cysts inside.  They also saw hydrops around her heart and her abdomen, which is an accumulation of fluid around these areas.  They mentioned that she probably had something called Turners Syndrome because of everything the ultrasound showed.  They also confirmed we were have a boy and a girl during this time.  On paper were blessed with a dream come true but in reality it seemed like we were in a nightmare.  Looking back I wish I would have had more faith in my daughter, my pregnancy and my Lord.

For the rest of the pregnancy in North Carolina I followed up closely with the specialist. Josh and I went to every doctors appointment expecting for them to tell us she passed away but that was so far from what actually happened.  In fact our last appoint in North Carolina, before I moved back to Houston, the specialist told us in a very surprised voice that our daughters hydrops looked better.  He mentioned that if in fact she did make it that she would be the second baby that he had ever seen survive after having such significant issues in utero.

I must mention that after the babies were born, the specialist called me himself to ask about her.  I proudly informed him that they were both doing well but it was going to be a long road for her.  At that point I had no idea how long and bumpy it was going to be but I am happy that I had such a wonderful team during our pregnancy in North Carolina.

 

TWINS?

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This picture was taken a day before the pregnancy tests confirmed what I already knew.

When we got pregnant with the babies I knew the day after that I was pregnant.  I have not a clue how but I did, and I told my husband immediately.  Then when it was time for me to take the test we were snowed in.  So after two days of being stuck inside our house, and after the commissary was FINALLY opened, I scrapped the snow off of my car and rushed to buy the tests before I had to go to work.  When I got back I took a test and it was negative… I took the second test and it was negative and then I took a third test and it was POSITIVE!  I was excited/scared and in shock.  This was January of 2014 and the first pregnancy after my corrective surgery on my uterus.  I knew this could be the one… or  in this case the two.

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Because one is never enough.

After finding out about the pregnancy I ended up putting my two weeks at MAC on February 20.  I knew this pregnancy I had to take it easy this time.  Despite how much I tried to be relaxed I had some scares so I became that paranoid patient that called the doctor for every unusual thing.  And then March came along and we went for our ultrasound and as I looked at the monitor I saw two somethings, but I didn’t have the training to know exactly what I was looking at.  Then the doctor said it….. “Looks like were making up for lost time.”  I looked at my husband and his eyes looked full of fear and excitement.  The doctor confirmed, TWINS!  I gathered up my words and the only thing that could come out of my mouth was, a lot of eff words.  I mean a lot of EFF words.  I cried, I laughed so hard I sounded like a maniac.

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“Looks like were making up for lost time.”

The news came as a shock because neither one of us have twins in the family.  You can imagine as we called our family members to inform them of the unusual news, we had very interesting reactions.  We also celebrated with my first craving… Popeyes.  It took us a while to accept that we were pregnant with twins, I even found out that women over 30 and that are taller than average have higher chances of having twins.  Well in my case I fit that profile and God had big plans for us.  We even took advantage that on April 1st (April Fools Day) was our last day of our first trimester so we shared only the above picture on Facebook and the reactions were priceless.